I have had a few attempts at internet dating in the past few months. I did find a few people that I would have liked to get to know, but I couldn’t stand waiting for them to reply and spent a lot of time worrying about whether something I wrote put them off. I became obsessed with checking for messages multiple times a day, so that my life and peace of mind revolved around these people I had never even met. It made me crazy. I became so stressed by the whole thing that I had to pull my profile down, several times. I just don’t think it’s for me.
So now I have to think of other places I might meet someone who is likely to be the kind of person I want to be with and where that someone is likely to be looking for someone like me too. Or where someone he is related to/friends with is likely to be so I can meet them and then meet him. It’s all about being in the right place at the right time, right?
The search begins…